Hollywood actress Nia Long has opened up about her current relationship with Nigerian-American ex-fiancé Ime Udoka, revealing a story not of bitterness—but of growth, grace, and healing.
After their public separation in 2022, following Udoka’s suspension as coach of the Boston Celtics over an internal scandal, many expected hostility. Instead, Long has chosen empathy. In a candid interview with The Cut, the 54-year-old actress shared that she and Udoka are now in a good place. “We’re doing well,” she said warmly, even referring to him affectionately as “Coach.”
Nia Long and Ime Udoka
Their bond remains anchored in their shared love for their 13-year-old son, Kez, who Long says is the heartbeat of their co-parenting journey. “The best gift we can give our children is to heal ourselves first,” she explained, emphasizing emotional health over resentment.
Long admitted that navigating heartbreak under public scrutiny was difficult, but she refuses to carry what she calls “burdensome energy.” Instead, she’s modeling emotional maturity, choosing forgiveness and peace over anger.
Her story offers a rare glimpse into post-breakup grace in an era of public feuds. Long’s quiet strength reminds us that true power lies not in revenge, but in healing, dignity, and forward motion.
