A Nigerian woman based in Canada has shared a viral, culturally nuanced message for travellers heading home for “Detty December,” Nigeria’s famed festive season.
Her advice offers a candid counterpoint to standard travel warnings, blending encouragement for celebration with a sharp call for responsibility.
The Speaker & The Context
The speaker is part of the diaspora, familiar with both worlds: the anticipation of returning home and the social dynamics that unfold. She directly addresses the IJGB (I Just Got Back) phenomenon—diasporans visiting Nigeria—who are central to the Detty December social scene. Her message is a reaction to standard Public Service Announcements (PSAs) that often caution travellers to be discreet and security-conscious.
Breaking Down The Message
Her advice contains several key, somewhat provocative, directives:
“Post Your Breeding Prices. Do Your GRWMs.” This is an encouragement to openly share the glamorous side of the trip on social media—from outfit costs (“breeding prices”) to “Get Ready With Me” videos. She advocates for visible, proud celebration over cautious discretion.
The Crucial Warning: “Don’t do those credit card-disputing things.” Here, she references a known, controversial practice where some travellers, after enjoying services, falsely dispute bar or restaurant charges upon returning abroad. She explicitly condemns this as unethical and damaging to Nigeria’s business reputation, labelling it as “not cool.”
The Core Sentiment: National Pride. Underpinning her message is a plea for travellers to represent and enjoy Nigeria proudly—”our country, too”—and to reject narratives that spoil its image or the festive experience.
Why This Perspective Resonates
This commentary is significant because it navigates the complex space between unrestrained celebration and ethical responsibility. It acknowledges the desire to “turn up” and showcase success, a core part of the IJGB identity, while drawing a firm line against fraud that harms local businesses and the country’s standing.
It’s a modern, social-media-savvy take on festive etiquette that prioritises both fun and integrity.
