The Big Brother Naija house was hit with fresh drama as housemates Kola and Dede clashed in a late-night heart-to-heart that quickly spiraled into tension.
What started with Kola’s apology — “Genuinely, I’m sorry if I have done anything… I know we haven’t spoken much today,” — soon turned into a marathon of pleading, with Kola desperate to understand why Dede was giving him the cold shoulder.
Dede, however, wasn’t ready to sugarcoat. Her responses were calm but cutting: “There is nothing wrong,” “that’s okay,” and the ultimate mic drop — “I don’t give a sh!t.”
Kola, visibly frustrated, pointed out an “energy shift” and pressed her to admit if his acceptance of a lounge deal or HOH houseguest decision was the problem. “Your face is straight, you’re not looking into my eyes that much, just say yes or no,” he urged. Dede shot back: “Would you be mad? So why do I have to accept? You can’t have your cake and eat it too.”
Even Kola’s dramatic vow — “I will kneel down here and beg you” — didn’t melt her stance.
Fans are already buzzing online, debating whether Kola’s persistence shows genuine care or just pressure, while others are hailing Dede’s unbothered attitude as queen-level boundary setting.
In true BBNaija fashion, the clash has left viewers divided, but one thing’s clear: the tension between Kola and Dede just turned the house into must-watch TV.
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Below is the raw conversation
Kola – Genuinely, i’m sorry if i have done anything, maybe not because i know we haven’t spoken much today, you were making your hair, i didn’t wanna be there when you were making your hair.
Dede – (laughs) it’s all good.
Kola – what’s wrong?
Dede – there is nothing wrong.
Kola – there is an energy shift right now.
Dede – and thats okay.
Kola – can you just please tell me what i have done? There is something wrong, please just talk to me (continues pleading with her)
Dede – we don’t have all night.
Kola – see the way you are talking to me.
Dede – unbothered
Kola – is me accepting the lounge part of it?
Dede – Am i supposed to be mad about it?
Kola – if i was in your shoes, maybe i would be, a little bit.
Dede – it’s fine.
Kola – your face is straight, you are not looking into my eyes that much, just say yes or no.
Dede – to what?
Kola – me accepting….
Dede – would you be mad?
Kola – yes.
Dede – so why do i have to accept? i just want to understand what is going on here, what do you think this is? that we would fight about things?
Kola – see the way you are talking to me. (continues explaining why he accepted the houseguest to the HOH , and how he wanted to be away from everyone).
Dede – and that’s okay.
Kola – but not you.
Dede – what do i have to do with it?
Kola – i still want to spend time with you.
Dede – you can’t have your cake and eat it too, you made your be, hop on it.
Kola – can i make it up to you.
Dede – no.
Kola – i will kneel down here and beg you.
Dede – i don’t give a sh!t.
